Must Have Dress + Testing Him
One night a few years ago, I felt the need to buy a wrap dress. I didn't have a special place to go. It wasn't for a date. There was no reason whatsoever to have a wrap dress other than to fill a void in my closet. I searched all over Google looking through dozens of pictures and weeding through websites to find the perfect one at the right price. I ended up on eBay looking at this pretty number that was only priced at $22.99....into the cart it went.
At the right angles, the dress shows just enough to let the mind wander. Although, I do have to be careful on windy days.
I am not positive if these are truly his words but, let's not focus on that:
It is very endearing for a man to show he is interested in a woman and shows that he wants her in his life. Yes, we like for men to earn us, to fight for us, to stand by us, to understand us, to comfort us, to admire us, and to love us. I like flowers, I like "You're beautiful" text messages, to be held, to be tended to, to be introduced to his colleagues, to be looked at with sincerity....I LOVE ALL OF THAT! But, I will not have that, if I keep pushing away because he may eventually stop pulling. (Please note that there is no man in particular I am speaking of, it's just a generalization.) A man is still human and has his limits just like we have ours.
Those of us who have been through chaos will not be so willing to let a man have all of us but, we have to slowly allow our walls to break down to let love back in. If a man has sincere interest, he will help you break down the wall but, don't allow one brick to crumble just to lay another brick behind it. No, we don't always like to be vulnerable but sometimes being vulnerable gives opportunities for someone to make us smile. We can't always turn the cold shoulder on those who want us.
There's no need to always test him. If he gives you his time, loyalty, and respect, why question his interest?....you already have it. Trust me, I am as inquiring as they come and I "Why?" everything. I notice myself doing it less because that crazy earnest feeling to know every detail is digressing slowly from my persona; I am learning to accept and not doubt the good in a man. Yes, certain experiences from my last relationship has me cautious and hesitant but, I am not going to allow those bad memories deter me from making great memories with someone amazing.
Don't let a good one go just because you can't let go of past hurt. Grow to