I have said it before and I will continue to say it because I fully believe it:
"The MAN, is the one who decides if there is a relationship or not."
And as mentioned in a previous post...for him to be my partner, my love, my life, and his support, I need him to begin the relationship in Lead. (See post HERE)
At most, I may ask a man what his future plans are in regards to his personal life but, I will NOT ask him to pursue a relationship with me. I may not be completely ready for a relationship but, if a man were to present me with one, I may consider it. Yet, keep in mind, I will not consider just any man. Some random dude can't just come out of the woodwork asking me to be his lady, NO, I do have standards.