Toys R Us Kid + Secrets


The meaning of life is to give life meaning. 💎🎀🏆


Dress: Fashion Nova
Shoes: BCBG


I took the kids to Toys R Us but, ended up getting a new friend! 
His name is Caspian. 
(*The name is from The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis)




EMAIL: xoxo.rayal@gmail.com

MY THOUGHTS:
 Secrets


Is this true?....Yes...well, for me it is.

I mainly do not reveal my true feelings for a man until he shows me he has similar feelings for me and this is for several reasons. 

1. Since my emotions can be fickle, I may not feel the same way about a man a month later, a week later, a day later.  I want to be sure I will continue to like and enjoy this man long term, so the time I spend with him is time that I am assessing the connection between the two of us, if we can have disagreements and still be around one another, if he maintains himself as a gentleman in a room of ignorance, if he behaves as a man to be admired in the most harsh obstacles...

2. If he does not think of me the same way, then I'll just be a foolish woman chasing after a man who has his mind somewhere else...and remember ladies, we don't chase!  Past Post HERE and *My next post will reflect this topic also.

Okay, some of you may say, "Well, he may feel the same way and just wants you to tell him first." - This is true BUT, again, I am the woman and he is the man. See past posts HERE & HERE.

I will not respect a relationship if I must lead it in.

And when my feelings are gone, they've been far gone before I even say something to you about it.  Woman are dwelling creatures.  We think and plan to ourselves before we make it known.

Want to share your thoughts? Send me an email: xoxo.rayal@gmail.com

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