What Do You Want To Eat?
Men, don't give us this option, okay? Know what YOU want to eat and just take us to the restaurant. I understand you may want to be considerate and allow us to pick what we like but honestly, you need to take the lead on this one.
Asking me what I want to eat is like telling me to go to DSW and only pick out 1 pair of shoes....it ain't happening.
Sometimes women just need to be told instead of asked, respectfully.
If my attire isn't appropriate or if I am under-dressed for where we are going, tell me to go change, respectfully. Two people should represent each other well in demeanor and appearance.
If I am being pretentious or standoffish, tell me to check my attitude, respectfully. (But also check to make sure I'm okay. In most scenarios I still conduct myself tastefully, yet there can be times where you just need to talk to me.)
If we are out and I am starting to cause a scene, pull me aside and tell me to simmer down, respectfully. (You may just need to get me home, I doubt I'll listen very well if I'm at this stage.)
A woman should know her place as much as a man should know his and both should be aware of each other's boundaries. If I am just completely unreasonable, I don't not expect a man to put up with it. I may be upset if he walks away but, then I need to read why he chose to distance himself.
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