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DISCLAIMER: These are my personal thoughts and believes. I encourage you to develop your own views on life topics as you see fit to who you are.
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April 2024
6
- Apr 23, 2024 Reconciliation Apr 23, 2024
- Apr 17, 2024 Advice From A Friend Apr 17, 2024
- Apr 11, 2024 Let's Talk About It Apr 11, 2024
- Apr 8, 2024 Spiritual Impacts From the Solar Eclipse (April 8th) Apr 8, 2024
- Apr 4, 2024 Be Above It Apr 4, 2024
- Apr 2, 2024 Don't Subliminally Pressure Me Apr 2, 2024
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March 2024
3
- Mar 25, 2024 Deflecting Anger and Blaming Others Mar 25, 2024
- Mar 14, 2024 Raya's Rundown Mar 14, 2024
- Mar 7, 2024 Signs Of A Dying Relationship Mar 7, 2024
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February 2024
6
- Feb 26, 2024 Sneaky Links Feb 26, 2024
- Feb 21, 2024 Signs of a Situationship Feb 21, 2024
- Feb 17, 2024 Repressed and Suppressed Feb 17, 2024
- Feb 17, 2024 Questions (8) Feb 17, 2024
- Feb 17, 2024 Is He Gay? Feb 17, 2024
- Feb 6, 2024 My Funny Valentine Feb 6, 2024
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January 2024
5
- Jan 30, 2024 I'm Good Jan 30, 2024
- Jan 23, 2024 Options Aren't Really Options Jan 23, 2024
- Jan 15, 2024 How's Your pH? Jan 15, 2024
- Jan 9, 2024 My Boyfriend Is A Great Husband To His Wife Jan 9, 2024
- Jan 3, 2024 Oh, Hey Ms. Independent Jan 3, 2024
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December 2023
8
- Dec 29, 2023 Is Destiny Already Set Or Do You Create It? Dec 29, 2023
- Dec 24, 2023 My Christmas Wish Dec 24, 2023
- Dec 19, 2023 Pain Dec 19, 2023
- Dec 16, 2023 Women With Red Flags Dec 16, 2023
- Dec 13, 2023 The Hug Dec 13, 2023
- Dec 10, 2023 Readers Rant Women vs. Men Dec 10, 2023
- Dec 7, 2023 A Helpful Man Dec 7, 2023
- Dec 1, 2023 Don't Bash Someone's Wins In Life Dec 1, 2023
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November 2023
4
- Nov 25, 2023 Why Are More Straight Men Behaving Like Women? Nov 25, 2023
- Nov 22, 2023 Thankful & Blessed Nov 22, 2023
- Nov 16, 2023 Puff Did WHAT?! Nov 16, 2023
- Nov 9, 2023 My Heart Changed Nov 9, 2023
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October 2023
6
- Oct 31, 2023 Don't Be Scared Oct 31, 2023
- Oct 25, 2023 My Fellas Oct 25, 2023
- Oct 20, 2023 Have A Coach Prime Attitude Oct 20, 2023
- Oct 18, 2023 Entertainment Recap: Marques Houston, Joe Buddens & Drake, etc. Oct 18, 2023
- Oct 11, 2023 The Married Man Review Oct 11, 2023
- Oct 4, 2023 Don’t Be Just Like Me Oct 4, 2023
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September 2023
5
- Sep 27, 2023 I'm Fresh, Not Fast Sep 27, 2023
- Sep 22, 2023 Not In The Mood Sep 22, 2023
- Sep 17, 2023 Guardian Angels Sep 17, 2023
- Sep 13, 2023 Reader Input: Girl...Talk to ALL of THEM! Sep 13, 2023
- Sep 7, 2023 Be Happy Sep 7, 2023
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August 2023
6
- Aug 31, 2023 The Partner Prayer Aug 31, 2023
- Aug 24, 2023 No New Friends/Problems Aug 24, 2023
- Aug 20, 2023 Relationships: A Wise Investment? Aug 20, 2023
- Aug 17, 2023 Girl Cliques Aug 17, 2023
- Aug 10, 2023 I talk back Aug 10, 2023
- Aug 2, 2023 The Grown Attitude Aug 2, 2023
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July 2023
6
- Jul 27, 2023 Interested In Him Jul 27, 2023
- Jul 21, 2023 Let The Juices Flow Jul 21, 2023
- Jul 20, 2023 Today's Generation of Men is NOT Yesterday's Jul 20, 2023
- Jul 16, 2023 Make Money Online Jul 16, 2023
- Jul 12, 2023 Looking For Trouble Jul 12, 2023
- Jul 6, 2023 The One Who Got Away Jul 6, 2023
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June 2023
5
- Jun 29, 2023 Lie To Me Jun 29, 2023
- Jun 23, 2023 A Reader's Rant: Age Gaps Jun 23, 2023
- Jun 15, 2023 Dream Lover Jun 15, 2023
- Jun 10, 2023 We Are Mosaics Jun 10, 2023
- Jun 6, 2023 The Standard And Not The Standard Jun 6, 2023
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May 2023
6
- May 30, 2023 Forever Doesn't Last A Long Time May 30, 2023
- May 23, 2023 Cougar-ish May 23, 2023
- May 19, 2023 The Side Effects Of Hate May 19, 2023
- May 16, 2023 Talk To Me With Bass May 16, 2023
- May 12, 2023 Please Him Too May 12, 2023
- May 5, 2023 To Be A H*e Or Not To Be A H*e? May 5, 2023
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April 2023
5
- Apr 28, 2023 Acts of Service Apr 28, 2023
- Apr 22, 2023 Old Sitcom Loves Apr 22, 2023
- Apr 13, 2023 Convos With The Fellas Apr 13, 2023
- Apr 8, 2023 Codename: "Poppa" Apr 8, 2023
- Apr 1, 2023 Northern vs. Southern Men Apr 1, 2023
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March 2023
5
- Mar 27, 2023 Continuous Growth Mar 27, 2023
- Mar 21, 2023 So Unattractive Mar 21, 2023
- Mar 13, 2023 I’m Dating A Married Man Mar 13, 2023
- Mar 7, 2023 Reader Input: Seeing Someone? Mar 7, 2023
- Mar 2, 2023 Wifely Duties (NSFW) Mar 2, 2023
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February 2023
9
- Feb 27, 2023 February Summary Feb 27, 2023
- Feb 21, 2023 Love Me When You're Ready, Not When You're Vulnerable Feb 21, 2023
- Feb 16, 2023 Choosing With Your Head First, Then Your Heart Feb 16, 2023
- Feb 15, 2023 Recovery Feb 15, 2023
- Feb 12, 2023 Just A Few Minutes Feb 12, 2023
- Feb 8, 2023 Our Business Not Yours Feb 8, 2023
- Feb 3, 2023 Zodiac Compatibility: Real? Feb 3, 2023
- Feb 3, 2023 Love Challenge Feb 3, 2023
- Feb 1, 2023 January Summary Feb 1, 2023
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January 2023
14
- Jan 31, 2023 My Man My Man Jan 31, 2023
- Jan 28, 2023 Check On Me Tonight Jan 28, 2023
- Jan 23, 2023 Love Isn't Enough Jan 23, 2023
- Jan 21, 2023 Change Of Heart Jan 21, 2023
- Jan 19, 2023 Seeing Someone? Jan 19, 2023
- Jan 19, 2023 Care For The V Jan 19, 2023
- Jan 18, 2023 Tolerable Jan 18, 2023
- Jan 15, 2023 Mixed Words Jan 15, 2023
- Jan 13, 2023 Open Relationships Jan 13, 2023
- Jan 10, 2023 Hugs and Kisses Jan 10, 2023
- Jan 10, 2023 Bedroom Moves Jan 10, 2023
- Jan 6, 2023 The Power Of Compliments Jan 6, 2023
- Jan 1, 2023 Selfish Jan 1, 2023
- Jan 1, 2023 Self-Esteem Jan 1, 2023
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December 2022
7
- Dec 25, 2022 The Vision Board Dec 25, 2022
- Dec 21, 2022 You Don't Like Complex Dec 21, 2022
- Dec 17, 2022 Empathy (Quick Note) Dec 17, 2022
- Dec 16, 2022 Hurt People, Hurt People Dec 16, 2022
- Dec 12, 2022 100/50/0 Dec 12, 2022
- Dec 7, 2022 I’m Not Your Type Dec 7, 2022
- Dec 2, 2022 When You Love Someone Dec 2, 2022
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November 2022
7
- Nov 28, 2022 Requiring The Bare Minimum Is Not A Goal Nov 28, 2022
- Nov 23, 2022 Why Do Men Do This? Nov 23, 2022
- Nov 17, 2022 Be Strong For Them, Be Soft For Him Nov 17, 2022
- Nov 14, 2022 Do You Cut Off All Your H*oes Right Away? Nov 14, 2022
- Nov 10, 2022 What is "WYD" and "WYA" Nov 10, 2022
- Nov 6, 2022 Identifying Intimacy: A Lover's View Nov 6, 2022
- Nov 3, 2022 Are You Who You Believe? Nov 3, 2022
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October 2022
6
- Oct 30, 2022 Dream A Little Dream Oct 30, 2022
- Oct 26, 2022 Against The Odds Oct 26, 2022
- Oct 23, 2022 Make It Mean Something Oct 23, 2022
- Oct 16, 2022 Look Out For Her When She Doesn't Oct 16, 2022
- Oct 10, 2022 Are You Worth Changing My PH Balance For? Oct 10, 2022
- Oct 3, 2022 “I’m Not Like Other Guys” Oct 3, 2022
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September 2022
5
- Sep 27, 2022 Men Have The Audacity Sep 27, 2022
- Sep 21, 2022 Opposing Views Sep 21, 2022
- Sep 15, 2022 Don't Give Everyone Access (RECAP) Sep 15, 2022
- Sep 12, 2022 Shuler King Message Sep 12, 2022
- Sep 6, 2022 My Phone Code Sep 6, 2022
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August 2022
5
- Aug 31, 2022 Questions? Comments? Aug 31, 2022
- Aug 25, 2022 Stay Unbroken Aug 25, 2022
- Aug 15, 2022 Manifesting The Man Aug 15, 2022
- Aug 9, 2022 Off Limits Aug 9, 2022
- Aug 2, 2022 I Wish A Man Would (NSFW) Aug 2, 2022
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July 2022
5
- Jul 26, 2022 A Few Good Men Jul 26, 2022
- Jul 26, 2022 The Energy You Give Jul 26, 2022
- Jul 19, 2022 Building Barriers Jul 19, 2022
- Jul 11, 2022 Body Image Jul 11, 2022
- Jul 6, 2022 Hard Truths Jul 6, 2022
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June 2022
4
- Jun 29, 2022 Alfa Men Jun 29, 2022
- Jun 23, 2022 Misleading Jun 23, 2022
- Jun 18, 2022 Single Does Not Equal Lonely Jun 18, 2022
- Jun 11, 2022 New Feelings Jun 11, 2022
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May 2022
6
- May 28, 2022 The Makings of a Perfect Lover May 28, 2022
- May 24, 2022 UnBirthday 2022 May 24, 2022
- May 15, 2022 One night stand May 15, 2022
- May 9, 2022 Space Kitty May 9, 2022
- May 8, 2022 Two Sides to a Coin May 8, 2022
- May 1, 2022 Marriage May 1, 2022
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April 2022
5
- Apr 22, 2022 Hey Raya Apr 22, 2022
- Apr 18, 2022 Mr. Perfect Apr 18, 2022
- Apr 14, 2022 Gentle Reader Apr 14, 2022
- Apr 8, 2022 Appearing Acts Apr 8, 2022
- Apr 3, 2022 Sure, Tell Me More Apr 3, 2022
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March 2022
3
- Mar 20, 2022 Be Good Mar 20, 2022
- Mar 13, 2022 Is He In A Relationship? Mar 13, 2022
- Mar 4, 2022 Don't Give Everyone Access: PT 2 Mar 4, 2022
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February 2022
7
- Feb 23, 2022 The Men We Choose Feb 23, 2022
- Feb 16, 2022 Self-Care, Peace & The V Care Feb 16, 2022
- Feb 14, 2022 Mind of a Boy Feb 14, 2022
- Feb 13, 2022 Soul Mates, Real or BS? Feb 13, 2022
- Feb 10, 2022 Then What Good Is He? Feb 10, 2022
- Feb 3, 2022 Another One Feb 3, 2022
- Feb 1, 2022 Men Are Demons Feb 1, 2022
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January 2022
7
- Jan 30, 2022 Man, A Woman's Best Friend Jan 30, 2022
- Jan 24, 2022 The Gatsby Man Jan 24, 2022
- Jan 14, 2022 Worth The Fight Jan 14, 2022
- Jan 14, 2022 Tech Gadgets For The Busy Woman Jan 14, 2022
- Jan 11, 2022 Men In Style Jan 11, 2022
- Jan 6, 2022 Make Up Sex Jan 6, 2022
- Jan 1, 2022 Comment Control Jan 1, 2022
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December 2021
7
- Dec 28, 2021 Recovery 2021 Dec 28, 2021
- Dec 26, 2021 Successful Kids Dec 26, 2021
- Dec 22, 2021 Disciplined Men Dec 22, 2021
- Dec 18, 2021 I Like When He...(NSFW) Dec 18, 2021
- Dec 15, 2021 HER Dec 15, 2021
- Dec 10, 2021 The Submissive (NSFW) Dec 10, 2021
- Dec 5, 2021 Intimacy (NSFW) Dec 5, 2021
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November 2021
1
- Nov 18, 2021 Set The Tone Nov 18, 2021
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October 2021
1
- Oct 14, 2021 Calming Yourself Oct 14, 2021
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September 2021
2
- Sep 26, 2021 Accepting the People Sep 26, 2021
- Sep 16, 2021 That's Just Love Sep 16, 2021
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August 2021
2
- Aug 31, 2021 Women and The Sum of All Fears Aug 31, 2021
- Aug 8, 2021 Rejuvenate Aug 8, 2021
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July 2021
2
- Jul 24, 2021 A Woman’s Insecurity Jul 24, 2021
- Jul 11, 2021 The Perfect Man Jul 11, 2021
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May 2021
2
- May 20, 2021 The Older Man May 20, 2021
- May 1, 2021 Gaslighting May 1, 2021
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April 2021
1
- Apr 12, 2021 Loyalty Apr 12, 2021
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March 2021
2
- Mar 30, 2021 Equal or Special Mar 30, 2021
- Mar 29, 2021 You're Just Stubborn Mar 29, 2021
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January 2021
2
- Jan 23, 2021 The Wall Jan 23, 2021
- Jan 17, 2021 You Can't Let Life Happen To You Jan 17, 2021
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November 2020
4
- Nov 24, 2020 Selfish Acts Nov 24, 2020
- Nov 15, 2020 What Could a 4-6 Week Lockdown Mean? Nov 15, 2020
- Nov 11, 2020 Receipts Nov 11, 2020
- Nov 6, 2020 Not Being Like Your Parents When Parenting Nov 6, 2020
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October 2020
3
- Oct 26, 2020 Depression Oct 26, 2020
- Oct 15, 2020 How To Trust Oct 15, 2020
- Oct 1, 2020 You Should Open Up More Oct 1, 2020
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September 2020
7
- Sep 25, 2020 Are Mothers Ruining Their Sons For Future Relationships? Sep 25, 2020
- Sep 16, 2020 When Is It Actually Considered Dating? Sep 16, 2020
- Sep 14, 2020 Do You Move Into Your Partner’s Place After Other Ex’s? Sep 14, 2020
- Sep 13, 2020 Message From Raya L. Sep 13, 2020
- Sep 13, 2020 Supporting Small Sep 13, 2020
- Sep 11, 2020 What to do between Birmingham & Tuscaloosa Sep 11, 2020
- Sep 3, 2020 Confidence Looks Good On You Sep 3, 2020
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August 2020
5
- Aug 26, 2020 The Prenup Aug 26, 2020
- Aug 19, 2020 Degrees & Certifications Aug 19, 2020
- Aug 16, 2020 Being Dominant vs. Being Abusive Aug 16, 2020
- Aug 11, 2020 I Ghosted My Skeleton...Twice Aug 11, 2020
- Aug 7, 2020 Extra Income Aug 7, 2020
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July 2020
4
- Jul 28, 2020 Don't Give Everyone Access Jul 28, 2020
- Jul 24, 2020 Stock Market For Beginners (E-BOOK) Jul 24, 2020
- Jul 21, 2020 The Real Preference Jul 21, 2020
- Jul 13, 2020 Travel: Pandemic Edition Jul 13, 2020
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June 2020
3
- Jun 30, 2020 Health & Wellness Jun 30, 2020
- Jun 10, 2020 Whether You Chose to Address It or Not, It Still Exists Jun 10, 2020
- Jun 1, 2020 A Journey in Tuscaloosa Jun 1, 2020
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May 2020
2
- May 22, 2020 The (UN)Birthday Celebrations May 22, 2020
- May 15, 2020 Welcome Back…Kinda May 15, 2020
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April 2020
2
- Apr 18, 2020 What Has Staying at Home Taught you? Apr 18, 2020
- Apr 9, 2020 Mental Health During a Pandemic Apr 9, 2020
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March 2020
3
- Mar 24, 2020 Social Distancing Mar 24, 2020
- Mar 14, 2020 Women Mar 14, 2020
- Mar 2, 2020 This is Not a Dating Place Mar 2, 2020
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February 2020
3
- Feb 20, 2020 Getting a Divorce is NOT the Same as Being Divorced Feb 20, 2020
- Feb 14, 2020 "Power Couples" Feb 14, 2020
- Feb 11, 2020 She's Too Young For You, Bro. Feb 11, 2020
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December 2019
2
- Dec 22, 2019 Adieu 2019 Dec 22, 2019
- Dec 3, 2019 Sharing Finances Dec 3, 2019
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November 2019
2
- Nov 7, 2019 Working as a Single Parent to Make it all WORK... Nov 7, 2019
- Nov 5, 2019 Letting go of Bad Investments Nov 5, 2019
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October 2019
1
- Oct 13, 2019 Everyone Loves the Hero, but No One Forgets the Villain Oct 13, 2019
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August 2019
2
- Aug 30, 2019 Make It Work Anywhere Aug 30, 2019
- Aug 7, 2019 Business Woman to Business Wife Aug 7, 2019
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July 2019
2
- Jul 30, 2019 Stand By Me Jul 30, 2019
- Jul 20, 2019 What Dreams May Come Jul 20, 2019
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June 2019
2
- Jun 12, 2019 The Busy Woman Jun 12, 2019
- Jun 4, 2019 The Boys Club Jun 4, 2019
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May 2019
1
- May 28, 2019 A BODY IN MOTION May 28, 2019
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March 2019
3
- Mar 29, 2019 WHY DO WE KEEP MISCIMMUNICATING IN THE WORKPLACE? Mar 29, 2019
- Mar 25, 2019 "Office Housework" is keeping women in their place? Mar 25, 2019
- Mar 19, 2019 Let Him Lead Mar 19, 2019
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November 2018
1
- Nov 9, 2018 Are You Running From Her? Nov 9, 2018
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October 2018
5
- Oct 19, 2018 Not Equal Oct 19, 2018
- Oct 18, 2018 Dear Men...and Women Oct 18, 2018
- Oct 6, 2018 It's Complicated Oct 6, 2018
- Oct 5, 2018 Great Expectations Oct 5, 2018
- Oct 1, 2018 Let's Not Waste Our Time Oct 1, 2018
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September 2018
3
- Sep 15, 2018 I Love You But... Sep 15, 2018
- Sep 10, 2018 Gold Digging Clarified Sep 10, 2018
- Sep 1, 2018 Times Up #MeToo Sep 1, 2018
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August 2018
1
- Aug 30, 2018 Grooming Aug 30, 2018
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January 2018
4
- Jan 22, 2018 Waiting for Who? Jan 22, 2018
- Jan 17, 2018 The Newer You Jan 17, 2018
- Jan 10, 2018 Can you Survive It? Jan 10, 2018
- Jan 1, 2018 Men Set The Tone Jan 1, 2018
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December 2017
3
- Dec 23, 2017 Better Decisions Dec 23, 2017
- Dec 8, 2017 90% of Women, Is this True? Dec 8, 2017
- Dec 2, 2017 Forgiveness & Apologies Dec 2, 2017
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October 2017
1
- Oct 18, 2017 A Two Household Marriage Oct 18, 2017
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September 2017
1
- Sep 12, 2017 You Don't Go Together Sep 12, 2017
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July 2017
1
- Jul 5, 2017 Do Men Settle? Jul 5, 2017
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June 2017
1
- Jun 21, 2017 She Did WHAT?! Jun 21, 2017
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May 2017
3
- May 24, 2017 Have a Strong Presence May 24, 2017
- May 17, 2017 Preparing for You May 17, 2017
- May 6, 2017 High Expectations May 6, 2017
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February 2017
2
- Feb 20, 2017 SOUTHERN HOSPITALITY #BAMA Feb 20, 2017
- Feb 10, 2017 Expectations of a Woman Feb 10, 2017
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January 2017
1
- Jan 30, 2017 Expectations of a Man Jan 30, 2017
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November 2016
2
- Nov 20, 2016 The Men We Entertain Nov 20, 2016
- Nov 5, 2016 Is a Married Man Worth The Effort? Nov 5, 2016
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October 2016
1
- Oct 8, 2016 Decisions Oct 8, 2016
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September 2016
1
- Sep 14, 2016 Must Read For Women Sep 14, 2016
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August 2016
1
- Aug 8, 2016 Clinging Aug 8, 2016
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June 2016
1
- Jun 25, 2016 The Proposal Jun 25, 2016
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April 2016
1
- Apr 10, 2016 What They Want Apr 10, 2016
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March 2016
2
- Mar 15, 2016 Devaluing Your Partner Mar 15, 2016
- Mar 11, 2016 See Me Less Mar 11, 2016
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February 2016
1
- Feb 29, 2016 Busy Feb 29, 2016
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December 2015
1
- Dec 23, 2015 The Mystery Dec 23, 2015
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November 2015
1
- Nov 9, 2015 In Training Nov 9, 2015
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July 2015
2
- Jul 24, 2015 Partnership Jul 24, 2015
- Jul 15, 2015 Go On Jul 15, 2015
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June 2015
3
- Jun 28, 2015 Different Languages Jun 28, 2015
- Jun 23, 2015 The Placement of a Kiss Jun 23, 2015
- Jun 14, 2015 Letting Go Jun 14, 2015
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April 2015
3
- Apr 30, 2015 The Stranger: A Gentleman's Style Apr 30, 2015
- Apr 11, 2015 Chemistry Apr 11, 2015
- Apr 2, 2015 Chivalry Apr 2, 2015
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March 2015
3
- Mar 26, 2015 A Queen Doesn't Play The Joker Mar 26, 2015
- Mar 24, 2015 Good Men Mar 24, 2015
- Mar 9, 2015 Testing Him Mar 9, 2015
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July 2013
1
- Jul 10, 2013 Introvert Jul 10, 2013